First… We might be the only couple in the USA who could care less about Valentines day… But this year. I thought I would wish you a HAPPY VALENTINES DAY! (more properly) To my husband. The man who lives in my house and sleeps in my bed… The man I don’t often get to connect with. I love you. I like you most days. The rest of the time you drive me crazy. The good news. I am in it for both types of days. Believe it or not I do pay attention… Like when you take out the trash, I notice. Yes. I also notice when you do not. I notice when you fill up my gas tank. I notice. The little stuff matters. I notice you too. I know you probably feel like most days I look right past you. I can easily be distracted by managing my career, businesses, kids - our ½ hearted son and our strong willed daughter, home chores, our home re-model…. I feel like the list could go on. So this is me pausing. Saying a few things I should probably make the time to